Should I feel threatened?

[gem]

Okay, now let's get one thing clear: I am, in fact, the jealous type.

Anyway, my boyfriend has this friend. She's a really nice girl and was actually a member of this board, but hasn't posted in a long time. She sort of wasn't online for like, a year. So now she came back, and my boyfriend is really happy about it. I always knew they were friends, but, as I just found out yesterday, this girl is pretty much second only to me. I'm just terrified that that could switch someday... No matter how much he tells me it won't, I just can't shake the feeling that I'm competing for him now...

[byronlogan]

hmm, i don't know what to tell you honestly, because i never had a romantic relationship in my life and have been a loner but i would say to trust him, beause he said it won't switch, second the whole beauty thing is societal and we are being bombarded with images of what the media defines as beautiful what matters is how you feel about yourself, anyway i might have gone a little bit off topic on it. and guys can have girls who are friends maybe he was happy due to her being away for a long time, anyways i hope this helps you out.

Take Care

Byron Logan

[gem]

Thanks, though I'm not sure where "the whole beauty thing" came from...?