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Post by terra on Jun 23, 2006 12:21:22 GMT -5
no prob
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Post by starfire on Jun 23, 2006 16:22:43 GMT -5
i've had a lot of experience with friends moving and whatnot.. i've also got experience with friends seriously injured/dying from stuff you feel like you could have prevented... my advice for the moving friends is this: make an effort to keep in contact. try and exchange email addresses, screen names, 'snail' mail addresses, phone numbers. make as many attempts to talk as you can. also, it's normal for people to drift out of contact, no matter how far away they are. don't stress about it too much.
as for your friend who died, you absolutely have to remember that it isn't your fault, and there is nothing you can do. you cannot blame yourself! seriously. i know that's the hardest thing you can ever do, not feel it's your fault, but you have to try. i know everyone says 'it gets better with time' and it does, but that time will feel like forever, but it will get better i promise.
if you need to talk/have any more questions feel free to PM me, ok?
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Post by floggin on Jun 24, 2006 22:12:00 GMT -5
Yeah, thanks. Though, I'm not very open with Pming people for advice.  |
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Post by jesfriendmagnet on Jun 28, 2006 13:50:15 GMT -5
Take one day at the time. Every time things feel over whelming, just take a deep breath and talk to someone or write down your feeling or draw. Anything but don't keep everything in.
^_^ Things will get better, just take one day at a time. She's right; Just don't keep everything to yourself.. It causes depression. My best friend is also moving.. On July 8. It'll be hard, but I know with the bond we've been able to create, we'll stay pretty close; You just gotta have faith in your friendship.. And be consistant with phone calls, emails, and letters =] And I'm sorry I really can't say something more; I've never been through something like this, andhonestly, there's not much I can do to help except tell you that I'm here for ya. =] And make sure you tell yourself that everything will be okay. =] |
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Post by floggin on Jun 28, 2006 14:57:57 GMT -5
Thanks.  Hey, guys, could you remember my friend Zoe today? She fell off a horse and smacked her head and is in the hospital. We're almost postitive she'll be fine..but still. |
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Post by Delirium on Jun 28, 2006 16:30:55 GMT -5
: ) Ok! Hope Zoe feels better.
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Post by floggin on Jun 28, 2006 22:08:28 GMT -5
Thanks Stephanie. I'll tell you how she is tomorrow if I can find out
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Post by Delirium on Jun 28, 2006 22:22:34 GMT -5
No problem. And, yeah, keep us posted.
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Post by floggin on Jun 29, 2006 12:15:25 GMT -5
She's alive. She had a mild concussion and stuff, but she's comming back tomorrow. It's just all mental now.
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Post by jesfriendmagnet on Jun 29, 2006 13:06:13 GMT -5
Aww I hope she feels better!
I wish her luck in recovering fast.
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Post by floggin on Jul 24, 2006 23:03:29 GMT -5
Alright guys, I will now bore you with my latest problem,
My friend told me something that's pretty serious, and she did the usual "before I tell you this, you have to PROMISE not to tell anybody" and I stupidly agreed. So she tells me, and now I really think I need to tell somebody, but I don't want to be a back stabber. I know it could save her life...but this girl can go from sweet and inocent to insane in two seconds. I think if I tell somebody she might...do something. To me, or to herself.
Any advice?
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Post by byronlogan on Jul 25, 2006 1:32:41 GMT -5
Alright guys, I will now bore you with my latest problem, My friend told me something that's pretty serious, and she did the usual "before I tell you this, you have to PROMISE not to tell anybody" and I stupidly agreed. So she tells me, and now I really think I need to tell somebody, but I don't want to be a back stabber. I know it could save her life...but this girl can go from sweet and inocent to insane in two seconds. I think if I tell somebody she might...do something. To me, or to herself. Any advice? well that is a tough one, i see, hmm i am a religous man so normally if someone told me a secret that i couldn't keep i would talk to my priest, and then he would give me sound advice, i mean if your friend is thinking of doing or is doing something that is indangering her life i would tell someone she might be mad at you but in the long run she would thank you in the long run, note this is my opinion on this topic please consult other peoples opinion before choosing a right one, |
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Hey, guys, could you remember my friend Zoe today? She fell off a horse and smacked her head and is in the hospital. We're almost postitive she'll be fine..but still.
