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Post by superdavefumc on May 8, 2006 15:23:57 GMT -5
i feel kinda silly asking for advice from people i don't know, but this is one of the only places i can go and not get laughed at. it's the classic story, crush on the girl, too shy to actually say something, yadda, yadda. and this is the classic plea for help. any advice?
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Post by robin on May 8, 2006 15:28:42 GMT -5
How well do you know the girl? Like friends or such?
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Post by superdavefumc on May 8, 2006 15:58:43 GMT -5
oh, yeah, we're pretty darn good friends.
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Post by gem on May 8, 2006 22:55:11 GMT -5
Well, there are about 3 ways this could work out for you:
1) She could say that she likes you too and you could end up quite happy together.
2) She could say that she doesn't feel that way, but you could still stay good friends.
3) She could say that she doesn't feel that way and start ignoring/avoiding you.
Heh. Not very reassuring, I know, but my question is, what is your impression of her feelings for you if you had to guess? (If you have any questions regarding the female mind, feel free to direct them towards me through pms or over aim)
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Post by the Azure Sky on May 8, 2006 23:52:22 GMT -5
I have actually like hooked up 11 guys with girls ....hehe im pretty proud of it so I keep track  Ok so your good friend, that is a totaly bonus! thats like the key thing...thats pro, as long as your not in the friend zone....and um...in my experience there is no real friend zone. Ok so 1. does she have a boyfriend? Im going to assume no 2. Do you ever do things with her outside of school? Like hang out and stuff. Basicly.....I would ask one of her friends if she liked any one, then if she says yes ask if she likes you....naturaly that will most likey get back to her(the girl you like) that you were asking so she knows you have been wondering. If her friend says that she does like you then...ask her(the girl you like) and if she confirms then sweet your golden. If her friend says she doesnt like you...well dont worry, she might have just not told her friend. Ok anyways, if you dont wana have to go through the trouble of doing that, yeah just ask her if she likes you...and being a girl she will most likey ask WHY? I mean she might say yes, but most likey if she says why she kinda does but is not sure if you like her and doesnt wana look like a fool by blurting out her feelings if you dont feel the same way. Anyways....another good way to ask if your really really to shy and stuff to do the other ways is ask her a bunch of hypothetical questions and then ask "hypothetically if I asked you out would you say yes?" again you might run into a why.....I have no real advice against the why...I mean you could just say "no real reason" or "just because" or what ever...I dont know. Anyways use that as you will or ask me questions...... Best of luck man (sorry if its hard to understand...add me to a IM thing and I can help ya more ) |
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Post by superdavefumc on May 9, 2006 14:57:51 GMT -5
i'll give it a try. thanks for the help.
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Post by the Azure Sky on May 9, 2006 21:32:20 GMT -5
tell us what happens stud |
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Post by superdavefumc on May 9, 2006 21:37:24 GMT -5
stud my irish butt. if anything does happen, i'll let you guys know.
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Post by the Azure Sky on May 9, 2006 21:41:16 GMT -5
if your irish your an auto stud |
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Post by superdavefumc on May 9, 2006 21:49:46 GMT -5
no accent.
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Post by the Azure Sky on May 10, 2006 12:52:50 GMT -5
minor set back......just pretend your mute!  |
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Post by superdavefumc on May 10, 2006 15:06:17 GMT -5
maybe i can fake one...
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